I talk to tired mamas every day who are desperately craving a real vacation—the kind where you can truly relax, unwind, and recharge. The conversation often starts with something like, “I’m exhausted. I want to go somewhere my kids can have fun, and I don’t have to think or make any decisions.” It’s a sentiment so many of us can relate to, right?
When I suggest cruising, I often hear, “I love the idea, but my husband is dead set against it.” Ah, yes. The sigh of recognition. Of course he is. He isn’t carrying the mental load while on vacation, so he wants to go somewhere fun and exciting and, and, and… and doesn’t have to consider the decision fatigue that mom will still feel while on vacation. (Of course, Dads, if this isn’t you and you’re an awesome vacation planner who lets Mom relax, then I am so proud of you! Go off and explore! But if Mom is saying she wants a break, take the family on a cruise. Trust me!)
The Mental Load on Vacation
Let’s be real for a moment. Moms, you know that even when you’re on vacation, you’re not truly off duty. Whether it’s planning meals, organizing activities, or simply making sure everyone has sunscreen on, the mental load doesn’t magically disappear just because you’ve left home. The idea of a vacation where someone else handles all the details? That’s the dream. And that’s exactly what a cruise offers.
On a cruise, all those decisions are made for you. Meals are planned and prepared (and food is ALWAYS available!), activities are scheduled, and entertainment is a short stroll away. You can do as much or as little as you want, and the best part? Your kids will be having a blast in a safe, supervised environment. Let’s get dad on board!
Option 1: Convince Him to Come Along
Maybe he’s hesitant because he has the wrong idea about cruises. Perhaps he pictures overcrowded buffets and cramped cabins. But modern cruising is a far cry from those outdated stereotypes. Take the time to explain how nice it will be for the two of you to reconnect while the kids are engrossed in a gaga ball tournament or making new friends at the kids’ club. Highlight the luxurious amenities, the endless dining options, the chance to visit multiple destinations without the hassle of packing and unpacking. And remind him that a happy, relaxed mom makes for a happier, more enjoyable vacation for everyone.
Option 2: Leave Him Home
Sometimes, it’s just not worth the battle. If your husband is really set against cruising, why not consider leaving him at home? Join a Mommune Group Cruise, and know that you will have support, friendship, and fun, all without the stress of convincing someone who just doesn’t get it. The kids will have a blast, you’ll finally get that break you deserve, and Dad can enjoy some quiet time at home—everyone wins!
The beauty of cruising with other families is that you’re surrounded by people who understand. You can relax by the pool, enjoy a spa day, or indulge in a good book, knowing that your kids are safe and entertained. And who knows? After hearing about all the fun you had, he might just be ready to join the next one.
Option 3: Consider a CruiseTour as a Compromise
If your husband is the type who wants to explore and see more than what a typical cruise offers, consider a CruiseTour as a compromise. These combine the best of both worlds—an immersive land tour before or after your cruise that allows for exploration and adventure, paired with the convenience and relaxation of cruising. Whether it’s a guided tour through the Alaskan wilderness or a few days in the heart of Europe, a CruiseTour can satisfy his wanderlust while still giving you the break you need.
Why a Cruise is the Ultimate Family Vacation
At the end of the day, cruising offers something that few other vacations can: a true sense of relaxation for everyone in the family. The kids are entertained and cared for, you get the break you deserve, and there’s always something for everyone to enjoy. Plus, you can tailor your cruise experience to fit your family’s needs, whether that’s an action-packed adventure or a laid-back retreat.
So, next time you’re dreaming of that perfect vacation where you don’t have to lift a finger, consider a cruise. And if your husband needs a little convincing, now you’ve got the tools to help him see the light. After all, everyone deserves a vacation where they can truly relax—even Mom.
